Many women compare their current boyfriends with their exes at unexpected moments. But when do they think their ex-boyfriends were better? Based on our survey of women, we introduce nine times women miss their exes even when they have boyfriends.
“My ex would patch things up right away.” Women start to question their boyfriends’ love when they don’t make an effort to fix the relationship. If you are not good at saying sorry to her face, let her know by text and avoid making the situation worse.
“I don’t think he values me enough…” When men disregard dates that are special to their girlfriends, exes start appearing many times more appealing. Even if you don’t have the money to do something fancy, you can always make a small gesture, like getting her a cake.
“He must really not trust me.” Men being overly controlling of their girlfriends’ behavior can make them remember the good old days and think, “I was more myself before.” Even if you are worried inside, send her off with a smile when she goes out and tell her, “Enjoy your time.”
“I didn’t realize how much it meant to me to have my boyfriend’s support.” Many women feel sad when their boyfriends are not interested in the things they work hard for. If your girlfriend starts to talk about her work or her hobbies, show her that you are paying attention.
“I worry about the future.” Some women feel anxious about the future of their relationship when their boyfriends lack motivation compared to their hard-working ex-boyfriends. Even if you don’t feel like working hard in your current job, show her that you are driven to overcome the challenges you face by saying something like, “I will treat you for something fancy in three years!”
“It makes me think he’s really intolerant.” Some women realize for the first time that their ex-boyfriends were lenient after their current boyfriends get mad at them.
“What a boring guy!” Some women are really dissatisfied with their thrifty boyfriends, and they might think, “My ex used to take me out to restaurants with great food!!” Your girlfriend will be more tolerant if you take her out once in a while. You could suggest something like, “Let’s go out when we get paid!”
“That limits where we can go!” Some women whose exes had drivers’ licenses lament the fact that they have significantly limited options for dates. You could think about dates that you can enjoy without a car, like walking around streets with cute shops.
“He doesn’t understand what I like!” Women start to question whether their boyfriends really like them when their gifts are really off. If you aren’t sure whether your girlfriend will like your gift, you should ask her to go shopping together so you can avoid making a mistake.
Published: August 12, 2017