Sex is a time when a couple can build intimacy. However, you could be initiating sex when she’s not in the mood. To avoid the frustration, we surveyed our Japanese female readers to bring you 9 occasions a Japanese Girl complains that men get their timing wrong with sex.
“I just really want to focus on the movie.” Some Japanese girls don’t want to be interrupted while watching television or movies. If you kiss her during a movie and she doesn’t seem to get into it, then your timing is probably off.
“We’re going out on a date later so I don’t want to be too tired.” Some Japanese girls don’t like starting their day with morning sex. Just keep it to a morning kiss and refrain from having sex unless she initiates it.
“It can be dangerous.” Some Japanese girls get frustrated when they’re distracted while cooking. Offer to help out, and think of cooking together as a fun and intimate activity to do as a couple.
“We were just cracking up and now he makes a serious face leaning in for a kiss…” Japanese girls will feel hesitant if they’re not in the mood. When the show is over, turn off the TV and play some music to set the mood for a more romantic atmosphere.
“It’s so inconsiderate of him.” Men who only think of themselves and don’t consider their woman’s schedule will come across as selfish. If she does seem to want sex, then try and go to bed early and start having sex early as well.
“I don’t want to mess up my make-up. It takes too long to fix it.” Some Japanese girls just don’t want to bother with the hassle of having to touch up their make-up. Try to initiate sex at the end of the day, when you know she won’t have to fix up her make-up again.
“Not only mine, but his breath bothers me too.” Some Japanese girls don't even want to kiss because of bad breath after eating. Ideally, you’ll both brush your teeth. If you can’t right away, then try using gum or drink some tea to refresh your mouth a little.
“I just changed the sheets and now they’re going to get messed up again…” Some Japanese girls don’t want to go through the trouble of washing their sheets again. Next time you’re in this situation, put a towel on the bed so you won’t stain the bed linen.
Last updated: October 07, 2017