Have you wondered why he acts unfriendly or icy towards you, even though you have never done anything to upset him? In many cases, his frosty behavior can be a sign of affection in disguise, but why does he complicate matters so much? Some of you may find it difficult to comprehend. Today, we set out to find the answers to why men act distant when faced with women they like.
He wants to maintain a tough guy persona, but this persona is manifested as gruff in your presence. He may be frustrated that he can’t find a good balance. You can help ease his dilemma by letting him know that you understand his true feelings.
He’s madly in love with you, and he can’t think of anything else to say but “yeah” and “uh-huh”. His mind is completely blank! He knows he’s panicking and he won’t appreciate being interrogated or teased about his response. You need to be patient with him until he’s ready to talk.
He doesn’t know how to express his jealousy and it comes out as unfriendliness. You may want to recall what you were doing just before you saw him. Were you talking to another guy and sharing a laugh? Be aware, men are just as jealous as women, and they can become resentful.
If he’s nice and affectionate over the phone or email, but cold and distant at work or school, he probably doesn’t want others to know how he feels about you. Especially if he’s your boss or supervisor, it’s unethical for him to play favors. You need to understand his position and not make a big fuss about it.
It’s all intentional in the game of love. He’s trying to get your attention by running hot and cold. If you suspect that this may be the case, just leave him to run his course. Sooner or later, he will flip sides and move on. You need to be the adult in this game.
Published: December 03, 2018